About TheraLume

When you need help, nothing else should matter.

TheraLume exists to take the searching out of finding a therapist — without taking the choosing away from you. Therapists introduce themselves; you decide who, if anyone, you want to talk to.

Why it exists

Finding a therapist asks the most from people who have the least to give.

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Choosing a therapist means reading dozens of profiles, guessing at fit from a paragraph, and sending messages that may never be answered — usually while already struggling.

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Directories and referral lists each solve part of this, and many people do find good care through them.

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We wanted to reverse the effort. You describe what matters once. Therapists who think they could be a potential fit reach out and explain why. The reading, comparing and deciding still belong to you — the searching does not.

What we believe

Someone should answer.

When you reach out for help, someone should answer. That holds on both sides of a first introduction.

For the person reaching out

You shouldn't have to search, decode profiles or send messages that go unanswered. Say what matters once, in your own words, and therapists who may be a fit can introduce themselves. You decide who you talk to.

For the therapist offering help

See client requests that fit your practice, and reach out only when you can genuinely help.

Who is behind it

Founded by two siblings, from two sides of the problem.

Sashaun kept seeing the same thing in her own practice: when the fit is right, care works — but a great many people never get that far, because the finding is built around browsing rather than being met. Her brother Shavauhn left full-time work to build software that gives people more agency. TheraLume is the two views put together.

A therapist and client in conversation during a session

Sashaun Clarke

Founder — Registered Psychotherapist

Brings the practitioner’s view of what a workable referral actually looks like: the right fit, arriving at a moment the person can act on it.

Shavauhn Gabay

Co-founder — DevOps engineer

Builds the software side, with a long-standing interest in tools that give everyday people more control over their own decisions rather than less.

Principles in practice

What these ideas actually change in the product.

Values are cheap to write. These are the decisions they cost us.

Fit decides who reaches you

You never browse a list of therapists, so there’s no placement to buy. Therapists who may be a fit introduce themselves. Paying for a TheraLume plan is not an endorsement by us, and it is not a signal about the quality of anyone’s care.

How introductions are sent

Sharing is a decision you make, not a default

Your answers begin as a private draft. No therapist sees them, and no one can contact you, until you review what would be shared and approve it. You can switch it back off at any time.

Privacy and safety

We would rather say nothing than say something unproven

No invented testimonials, no match percentages presented as clinical probability, no guaranteed reply times. If we cannot measure it yet, this site does not claim it — including on this page.

Scope and accountability

What we are, and what we are not.

TheraLume does

  • Hold your preferences as a private profile
  • Let therapists introduce themselves to you
  • Give you a place to accept, decline or ignore

TheraLume does not

  • Provide therapy, assessment or diagnosis
  • Set fees or take payment for sessions
  • Operate as a crisis or emergency service

Your therapist is your care provider, and your relationship is with them. The regions and eligibility we currently support are stated on how matching works. If you are in danger or in crisis, call 911 or 988 — messages here are not monitored in real time.

Privacy and safety Terms of use

The next step

See how matching actually works.

The process page walks through every step, what is shared at each one, and what happens if no one reaches out.

How matching works

Ready already? Start My Match · Are you a therapist? TheraLume for therapists

Shavauhn also builds Kazibee, an unrelated software project. Mentioned as founder context only; it has no role in how therapists are introduced to you.